The US Commercial Buildings Energy Consumption Survey has this type of data as well although it’s aggregated in most data formats available. The CBECS dataset is the primary source for EPA EnergyStar, the AIA 2030 challenge among many other organizations. Some of the EIA CBECS analysis uses the survey results to estimate energy consumption across all US buildings for the purposes of policy development. A good place to start diving into it is here: EIA CBECS .
The BPD @macri.daniel mentioned is a great resource and pulls from various benchmarking ordinances from municipalities around the US. They provide links to the raw data as well.